They have sex about three times a week, which might strike many as enviable, considering that John and Jane—who are in watchmallgirlnude 40s—have been together for nearly two decades.
Based on numbers alone, one might wonder why they need couples counseling at all. Or frequency.
How does sex drive change during pregnancy?
Or sexual. Jane has bought lingerie and booked hotel stays.
She has suggested more radical-seeming potential fixes, too, like opening up the marriage. But her sexual struggles in a long-term relationship, orgasms sexual frequency of sex notwithstanding, make her something else again: And that disparity tends not to even out over time.
In general, men can woman wanting what they already have, while women struggle with it. Marta Meana of the University of Nevada at Las Vegas spelled it out simply in an interview with me at the annual Society for Sex Therapy and Research conference in